Because you care very much, you will be very mindful.
Have you ever encountered such a person?
You don’t return his news, even if you come back later, he will be angry;
You don’t contact him or accept his offer, he will be angry ;
If you say something that doesn’t follow suit, or deliberately provokes him to be angry, then he will be more angry.
It seems that no matter what you do, you will provoke him not to Happy. So the more you feel that he is not reasonable, it is unreasonable. I knew that I didn’t do anything, and I was so angry that I was inexplicably angry.
But you haven’t thought about why he’s so tempered, and he’s not observing the emotions of this person’s always maddening, and he’s not sure how much he cares about you. It will lead to your happiness and sadness in your words and deeds.
If you don’t care about you so much, how can you mind your every move?
I have read a sentence online. People who don’t care about you are very cool in front of you. Only those who care about you will become like themselves, lose their proper posture, and willingly be restrained by you.
If it’s not because you care about you, how can you care about your cold and warmth, worry about your safety; if it’s not because you care about you, how can you always suffer from loss and worry about whether you have changed your mind; if not because you care How can you want to be with you twenty-four hours a day?
In the feelings, the more you love, the humbler you are. Because he always worried that he is not good enough, not worthy of your good.
You won’t know how much your eyes will turn in his heart, and you won’t know how much he is afraid of your departure, and you won’t know your uncertainty. Attitude will make him expect much.
Zhang Ailing wrote this sentence: “People are always happy when they are close to happiness, but they are suffering when they are happy.“
So you It is the person who is loved. You don’t know how much he cares about you. You only see how much he cares about you.
Every relationship is like a game Bet, the more you invest, the easier it is to affect your emotions, and you are afraid that you will not be able to hold on to your immediate happiness, so you will suffer from the unfrozen attitude of your partner.
When you don’t feel your love, and you don’t feel the sense of security you give, he will have uneasy emotions and will be involuntarily thinking.
So when you don’t return to him, he will be angry; if you don’t contact him, he will worry if you are in contact with others, you will be angry; every word you say, he is Try to figure out what you mean.
Because you care too much, you will be so mindful.
Because I care, I care;
Because you care, you will mind.
So, if that person is always angry with you, who cares about your attitude, suddenly no longer mind if you return to him, no longer mind if you contact him, no longer mind your unclear attitude Then, he must not love.
Taste the people around you who are often confused and uneasy!
It’s not easy to meet someone who really cares about you in this world, so don’t take it The other party lost it!